{"id":198,"date":"2021-01-04T17:04:55","date_gmt":"2021-01-04T17:04:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/yadrachelnj.org\/blog\/?p=198"},"modified":"2024-03-06T17:09:26","modified_gmt":"2024-03-06T17:09:26","slug":"just-nerves","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yadrachelnj.org\/just-nerves\/","title":{"rendered":"Just Nerves?"},"content":{"rendered":"\r\n
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“Who told you to stop taking your meds, Moish?”<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n His name was Yekusiel Shemaya Tuvia Moshe Wein.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n \u201cBut you can call me Moish,\u201d he said, with an air of someone who\u2019s been through it enough times that he reflexively explained, \u201cI\u2019m named for a few different elter zeides, and I was also born on Zayin Adar, so my father shlita thought it was a good name. But like I said, just call me Moish.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n And so I got to meet Moish, an older bochur with a history of OCD who had been at the same chassidishe yeshivah for the past seven years. Moish had come for a consultation regarding his medication regimen, and his story was pretty straightforward: He was a \u201cchecker,\u201d and a slave to his fears of missing something when it came to kavanos or halachos. His was a textbook case of the bochur who was still adjusting his tefillin for Shacharis three hours later, and would miserably repeat the same tefillah over and over to ensure he\u2019d pronounced Hashem\u2019s name correctly. He hated his life and was on his way to hating Yiddishkeit.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n And who could blame him? The poor guy could barely get through Shacharis before 2 p.m.! How could he possibly feel any connection to a supremely loving Eibeshter?<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n But Moish had a history of good response to treatment and had seen top clinicians in the past. So it was a bit of a puzzle as to why he hadn\u2019t been able to successfully move on, given his success in some exceptional treatment programs. And yet here he was in my office, asking what sounded like a first-time question.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n \u201cSo what medication should I take?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n